Another Relationship Question....

[Hou]

as most of you who know me know, Im not one for easy simple relationships.

My newest problem revolves around a few things. First, this girl is blonde, petitie, absolutely gorgeous, 5 yrs older then me and absolute fun to be around

Ive fancied the ***** off her since i first saw her about 9 months ago and im going out with her tomorrow night as she really likes me and we get on great........

Now the problems:

1) I work with her

2) Shes pregnant with her Ex's child

How do I get myself in these mess's, last turned into a stripper and now this!

So what advice can people give from experiences??

[Red Yaris 54]

Enjoy your night out ........................and see how it goes from there

[JappyBeast]

You are looking into things too much!

Relax and go for that drink.

[Moffmo]

yeah.. just go and have a good time you knob

[Johndcfc]

In, out, shake it all about.

[Kev Mc]

Work shouldn't be too much trouble unless you break up & fall out to the point where you can't work with her, but nobody will want that so chances are it will never be an issue.

You need to ask yourself a few questions about point 2. Can you cope with the sacrifices you may have to make for this unborn kid, or perhaps more to the point - can you cope with the sacrifices she'll need to make for this unborn kid? Hopefully her ex will have a big part to play in the child's life & so will have to have a certain degree of contact with this girl, are you ok with that?

I can't see any of it being an issue so I think you should just go out, enjoy yourself & take each day as it comes as you usually would do in a new relationship & see how it goes. Stop looking too deeply into it & just concentrate on having fun

[MarcTS]

As has been said already go out and enjoy the evening with a beuatiful woman who for some strange reason seems to like you aswell ;) If her ex intends to be around for the child and support it, then chances are she won't be a "crazy pregnant woman" desperately hunting for someone to be "Daddy" to her unborn child.

With regards to the work thing, your best bet is to be open and upfront about everything. If it doesn't work out then tell her straight off before things get too involved. That way it'll just be a little experiment between you that didn't work out and there shouldn't be any hard feelings or animosity floating around.

[Jimlad]

In, out, shake it all about.

:D

[Boro Sera]

just remember the link between humans and dolphins that I told you about...................it's surely not a coincidence !

If you like her though it's worth seeing where it'll go - it's only a drink after all

[Guest MrMojo]

Ha ha good one Rich,

and as said before dood Chill, relax n just have a good time Btw oh yes she is stunning .

Mo

[Captain Weirdbeard]

If you've got genuine interest in this woman over and above pure lust, go for it my friend.

If not, you could always consider a retreat to a monastery... Nuns (and Monks, come to think of it) are not so much of a distraction unless you've got some really bad habits that I am unaware of.

Good luck to you both!

[Karma Supra]

Go for it, at least you can't get her pregnant ;)

I take it she is keeping it?

[Demonic Angel]

Disengage brain!

Sometimes you can't understand these things and you just need to go with the flow.... Go out, have fun, enjoy life and then consider more in the world - don't make the same mistakes I have by overly-assessing the situation ;)

[knowlson]

Go for it, at least you can't get her pregnant ;)

Wise words dude

[vmail]

what would gaz say

[Boro Sera]

what would gaz say

He'd probably go on about Portsmouth FC for a bit, then get totally random :P

[Raistlin]

How big is the father ?

[Hou]

Well Im back..............

How did it go? Really really well, thats the problem

waited till end of the night before gently kissing her bye

tomorrow at works gonna be interesting

[Red Yaris 54]

Well Im back..............

How did it go? Really really well, thats the problem

waited till end of the night before gently kissing her bye

tomorrow at works gonna be interesting

Glad you enjoyed your evening out and that all went well

[Raistlin]

Wait for the whispering during the coffee break, if they still talk to you assume all is well if not ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[JappyBeast]

How big is the father ?

This would be on my mind!

Glad you had a good night!

[Pompey Gaz]

what would gaz say

think of it as what would you prefer? winning the premiership or staying up? Sol is a one man defence and you have to consider how well we have done under Harry

Tonight at work...............

Seriously dude she is alright and you need to see how you both feel? if you like her would you put up with her sprog if its what you both want? if its just fun chances are it could get more serious. She is a stunner though and good luck but only you will know what is right and wrong and let it lead its own way with what both of you are happy with

we won Blackburn on saturday, Gareth was happy :)

[Hou]

Well back at work and things are wierd to say the least, getting mixed signals so just going to work on the basis that thats it and any more is a bonus!

And gaz your right she is a stunner

[Calisto]

She wont be pregnant for ever!!!!!!!!!! ;) and you would make a good step-dad.!!!!!!

I'll get my coat!!!!!!

Luv you Hou.x

[Hou]

well looks like we are off out again some time.......result.........I think

must have been the trademark Hou first kiss

but on a serious note need to be careful things dont get dodgy at work!

luv you too asha, now stop talking silly things