Am I Supposed To Be Having Kids Now?

[GIDDLEPIN]

I love children........................................as long as they are somebody else's and not mine

I don't think my life would be as comfortable as it is now if there had been any mini-me's ;)

[Blue84]

Well I'm 22, 23 in December and I've only decided recently that the thought of having kids of my own doesn't scare me like it used to.

Saying that, now wouldn't be the right time for us to have any Children.....but if you are secure (relationship wise and money/living etc) and you have mutually decided on it then go for it...I don't think there is any limits on it, I know age is a factor for us women and chances of conceiving diminish a lot as the years go by....anyway everyone is different - for some people it's either right for them to have them or it just "accidentally happens" and they cant deal with an abortion...each life to it's own I say!