Get Off My ****ing Car!

[DellaRed]

Well I have to say you are a crazy man for not getting out of there sooner than you did ...

Must say though, they all sound very immature for acting like they did ... take it as a compliment that they were impressed by your car, but in future stand for none of this rubbish ... where do people get off treating peoples possessions like they do?

My daughter is 16 and has a 19 year old boyfriend, her friends used to think they could get a free ride to wherever they wanted ... my daughter was having none of it! ... Like she said, there is no way she would use someone in this way and she wasnt about to let her boyfriend get used and abused also, so she hasnt allowed herself/boyfriend to be in that position again ...

I know it might sound pathetic but if you're ever in that position again (sad, immature children, looking for a free ride) ... you'll have to lay ground rules down; ask for petrol money, say that any damage done to the car will have to be paid for ... say it with a stern voice, then smile, look at them all and say 'are we all clear about that' after so that they know you mean business ... Nobody should have to put up with that rubbish and if you dont stand up for yourself no-one else will do it for you!

I would have definately lost it, I know you probably didnt want to upset the girl you are seeing, but tell her that you wont ever allow yourself to be in that positon again, she should agree with you ... How would anyone feel, including your girlfriend, if this happened to their car? ... Maybe its a bit hard for her to understand as she doesnt drive yet!

Good Luck with future 'outings' ...

[Red Yaris 54]

Well I have to say you are a crazy man for not getting out of there sooner than you did ...

Must say though, they all sound very immature for acting like they did ... take it as a compliment that they were impressed by your car, but in future stand for none of this rubbish ... where do people get off treating peoples possessions like they do?

My daughter is 16 and has a 19 year old boyfriend, her friends used to think they could get a free ride to wherever they wanted ... my daughter was having none of it! ... Like she said, there is no way she would use someone in this way and she wasnt about to let her boyfriend get used and abused also, so she hasnt allowed herself/boyfriend to be in that position again ...

I know it might sound pathetic but if you're ever in that position again (sad, immature children, looking for a free ride) ... you'll have to lay ground rules down; ask for petrol money, say that any damage done to the car will have to be paid for ... say it with a stern voice, then smile, look at them all and say 'are we all clear about that' after so that they know you mean business ... Nobody should have to put up with that rubbish and if you dont stand up for yourself no-one else will do it for you!

I would have definately lost it, I know you probably didnt want to upset the girl you are seeing, but tell her that you wont ever allow yourself to be in that positon again, she should agree with you ... How would anyone feel, including your girlfriend, if this happened to their car? ... Maybe its a bit hard for her to understand as she doesnt drive yet!

Good Luck with future 'outings' ...

That is where the "Assertiveness Training" will be usefull

[forde]

That's the thing. No real damage done.

bow-locks mate, they kerbed your alloys and opened your door into a wall, and scuffed your paint no doubt on the boot, and let your tyres down, and wrecked your mats. and why the ubik did you pay for their food? dont let ppl walk all over you, grow a set of balls.

i wudve knocked seven shades out of the wee fella as soon as he touched my dust caps, never mind kerbing my wheels! he'd be paying for a refurb or id be takin a tooth for each scrape that was on them. when he's payin for a car, then he can touch it.

i cant believe you let them do all that and didnt beat the linin out of any one of them, i keep a wheel brace in my door pocket in case any people like that start messing with my stuff so to speak. everyone knows not to lay a finger on my motor cos im protective of everything i own, and its good that way cos i get no hassle.

i feel bad for you, but you did let them away with it in the first instance (dust caps) so it escalated cos they knew u wudnt do anything. you shudve left the party when you got there and realised it was crap, unless you were drinking. personally i wud have left after walkin up the road and not being let in straight away. guess im just not as calm as you, but i dont think i would want to be.

take no crap from anyone mate. it doesnt matter if you get into a fight, it doesnt even matter if you lose the fight. id rather know that id stood up for myself and what i believe in that just let people walk all over me.

EDIT - LMAO at what happens when you write some bad words on this board like "<if my vocabulary was any smaller, it would be nearly as small as my genitals>" and "<the spuds of lurrrrvve>s" LOLOLOLOLOLOLXDROFLCOPTERBBQPIZZA but that word isnt really a swear in ireland lol more a general adjective/noun/verb lol

oh yeah and tell that immature girl to go fornicate herself with an iron stick, if my girlfriend ever let her mates get on like that around me and not only didnt stop them but went along with it i wudve thrown her out on her ear.

Edited October 16, 2007 by Demonic Angel
Replaced a few naughty words - do not try and bypass the swear filter. You are live on Channel TOC. Please do not swear.

[Calisto]

imo.....

You have the patience of a saint or you like this girl wayyyyy to much for your good.

BTW how old is the girl? Am I right in saying that your 20?

I dont like people leaning on my car let alone getting up to the idiotic tricks you let them do to your car......but if you dont stand up to them in the first place, then you get what your given and you deserve it!!!

[crazyman50000]

Yeah Im 20, she's 16. I don't wanna see her again. I can picture her mates driving ****e like Fiestas, Saxos and Corsas worth about £500 in years to come like loonies (loads of 50MPH carriage ways round by her you can blast down at pretty much whatever speed you want) and don't fancy testing the airbags in my car / my car using theirs as an extra crumple zone (5th gear anyone...)

The truth is, the lesson to be learned is don't mix with people under 18 - they just don't have any respect.

Patience has to be at length. If the kid've hit me back, Id have found MY 18" wheel brace and killed the little **** with it. I have very temperamental anger. Once I see red you better ****in run cuz I have a lot of pent up anger and won't stop.

[jd26]

god. it must take alot to make you see red

[Baby Yari]

Once I see red you better ****in run cuz I have a lot of pent up anger and won't stop.

We can certainly see that fella!!!

At the end of the day mate, it's not an issue hanging around with the younger genertation, there not all little f***ers like them, some of them do have respect for other people & peoples possesions. I work with a young lady who has just turned 18 and she walks around like a 40 year old!!!!

[crazyman50000]

god. it must take alot to make you see red

It does for the sole reason I know that when I lose control it's not a good thing

[Demonic Angel]

Can I please remind people not to try and bypass the swear filters please. This is a family friendly forum, we don't do swearing. Swearing is swearing, no matter how many "***"s you include

There are plenty of other words you can use instead. The English language is the most complex language in the world, use it to its full advantage.

[gar]

Can I please remind people not to try and bypass the swear filters please. This is a family friendly forum, we don't do swearing. Swearing is swearing, no matter how many "***"s you include

There are plenty of other words you can use instead. The English language is the most complex language in the world, use it to its full advantage.

I think we are missing the 'obvious' here! Crazy may have been a little too lenient, thinking he may have been 'Ahhm' onto a good thing! Many a promise has led to subersive compliance, only to be a waste of time!

[Baby Yari]

Can I please remind people not to try and bypass the swear filters please. This is a family friendly forum, we don't do swearing. Swearing is swearing, no matter how many "***"s you include

There are plenty of other words you can use instead. The English language is the most complex language in the world, use it to its full advantage.

Assuming the above was aimed at me, I apologise. :(

Being a family forum, do you roughly know how many child members we have?!

[Demonic Angel]

Can I please remind people not to try and bypass the swear filters please. This is a family friendly forum, we don't do swearing. Swearing is swearing, no matter how many "***"s you include

There are plenty of other words you can use instead. The English language is the most complex language in the world, use it to its full advantage.

Assuming the above was aimed at me, I apologise. :(

Being a family forum, do you roughly know how many child members we have?!

It was aimed at everyone who's been swearing, not just at one person in particular ;)

We have plenty of child-ish members, I couldnt count those on two hands....

[seveer unaek]

Interesting reading... Like Dave, I too am trained in Martial arts (Shotokan Karate 2nd Dan Black Belt - no lies to those doubters) and I am 100% undefeated. Why? Because I am trained in discipline and self-defence, and the first rule is to not be there. 2nd rule is to get out of there and the third rule is if you can get one hit in, get a 1000 in. Thankfully, if you follow the first two rules, the 3rd one isn't required.

There's nothing macho about slapping some little kid, especially when there were 25 youths there, and as we all know from recent press stories, they have no respect for anybodys life... you beat the hell out of one and all 25 will chase you down. Make no mistake on this point.

Sadly, hindsight is just that, you should've gone as soon as you realised you didn't enjoy the place and not let your manhood do the thinking (which no offence must have been the case when you put up with that much crud and she's 16... plenty of 20yr olds about mate... students are fit and very easy these days if thats what rocks you!!)

I have only once let my temper get the better of me in regards my car... my first car, daewoo matiz (yeah!)... when I was in 6th form i was a taxi service for my friends, which i don't see anymore as I realised I was heading down a path I didn't want to be associated with. One of them opened the door when I was reversing and bent the door, he thought it was funny, I saw red, flipped out and no longer did he find it funny. He and the 3 other mates walked the 2 mile journey.

I have great respect for somebody in your position who could stand all that and keep temper down, it will serve you well in life as there are a lot of winkers about. But occasionally, rule 2 has to come into play sooner rather than later... like the shepards... get the flock outta here.

[jrampton]

Drove 30 miles (!) to Worcester to see a girl. Got there, park on the pub car park round from hers. 45 minutes later (baring in mind it only took me an hour to drive there) she shows up.

Walk up to her mates house where the party is. She said I could park my car on the drive there but I say it's ok.

Some time later the neighbours turn up winging something about only allowing 7 people (wtf) to be in the house instead of about the 25 that were there. 3 hours later we're finally 'allowed' in. Needless to say, so far it's cost me about £5 to drive there and we've been walking backwards and forwards up the road pretty much the whole time. Age range of the party goers were about 14-22 (Im 20)

We get in and Im in the understanding that we'de be in a bed to sleep. As in duvet, pillows etc. No. We end up in the office on a fold out bed poufe thing.

By now it's 2am and Im getting quite tired. Me and the girl are in this fold out poufe thing and every 10 minutes or so her friends burst through the door. They finally get bored of this at FOUR THIRTY AM.

I get about 3 hours sleep and so wake up looking a bit worse for wear. Then comes the trip to McDonalds, as I really need coffee by now to keep me alert enough to drive home. One of her friends (age 16) starts taking the dust caps off the car and trying to let my tyres down. This doesn't bother me that much. I keep a small air compressor and pressure gauge in the car just in case. Finally get the caps back on and he thinks it's funny to lift the wipers up. Again, not to pleased but not angry. Then he starts trying to open the petrol cap which obviously can only be opened from inside the car. Then he's holding a lighter next to the petrol cap :o Then he things it's funny to get on the bonnet gripping the top of it.

Eventually he ****s off and we drive to McDonalds. Bare in mind, of the now 5 people in the car, Im the only one that can drive. This makes lane changing lethal as they seem only to be compliant in giving directions once you're right on top of a junction. Again, I let this slip and drive to McDonalds. Next thing, Im paying for all their food (£17!) and we drive back to her mates house.

After a few boring hours of her mates generally &#33;Removed&#33; around, including them trying to throw rocks, crab apples and tennis balls over the house to hit my car. Ive had enough and want to go home. They all jump in the car (again calm) and the girl Im seeing wants to see the magic light up display. Next thing is one of her mates in the back drops the handbrake and 2 of em are now pushing the Yaris up the road. Steering locks on scratching my alloys all up the curbs. Because it's now moved, her mate in the passenger seat opens the door smashing against a nearby wall. I eventually get back in the seat, start the engine, say goodbye to said girl, glance in the rear view mirror and THE KID THAT WAS ****ING ABOUT WITH MY CAPS AND WIPERS IS ONLY STANDING ON BOOT LIP. This is where I actually snap, grab the kid that was standing on the boot lip, shout at him saying "I DON'T FIND IT ****ING FUN. LEAVE MY ****ING CAR ALONE, OK?!" tell everyone to get the **** off the car and leave me alone. Slip it in to first, floor it up the road before eventually stopping to calm down.

Now, had the car cost me £500 or less, I probably wouldn't have lost my temper. But it's a FIVE N ARF GRAND CAR THAT IM PAYING FOR OUT MY OWN POCKET! I WANT TO KEEP IT LOOKING NICE!

Then I notice the girl Ive been seeing heels have marked all my new shiny rubber mats. I wouldn't mind but they've only been in ONE DAY.

Im really not pleased. Ive never really had any nice things in life and anything I have took pride in before has just been ruined. Now I thought Im a bit older, no one should **** about with my things - I can buy myself some nice stuff. I DONT NEED SOME SCROTTING 16 YEAR OLD CLIMBING ON MY CAR LIKE A MONKEY!

Rant over. Just needed to vent some steam.

But did she put out ?

I'd have driven them out into the countryside, kicked them out and left them there.

[T V O R]

Being a family forum, do you roughly know how many child members we have?!

Its not so much as how many child members we have, it’s the fact that children can see what we are reading and looking at while visiting the TOC

[crazyman50000]

Being a family forum, do you roughly know how many child members we have?!

Its not so much as how many child members we have, it’s the fact that children can see what we are reading and looking at while visiting the TOC

Yeah she put out. Not brilliant though.

[Baby Yari]

Being a family forum, do you roughly know how many child members we have?!

Its not so much as how many child members we have, it’s the fact that children can see what we are reading and looking at while visiting the TOC

Yeah she put out. Not brilliant though.

At least you got something out of it then!!!

[Jinxed]

I'm astounded.... and horrified all at once

[jrampton]

Being a family forum, do you roughly know how many child members we have?!

Its not so much as how many child members we have, it’s the fact that children can see what we are reading and looking at while visiting the TOC

Yeah she put out. Not brilliant though.

LMFAO !! Brilliant !!